Meeting You Where You Are ~
What does that mean?
I will meet you where you are on your Journey. I will encourage open
dialogue and facilitate difficult discussions. Together we can decide which
resources, referrals, and services best fit your journey. I’m fiercely
passionate about empowering you to make choices that ensure your wishes are
honoured.
Empowering You to Plan Well ~
Knowledge is power. Preplanning is an option available to express your
future health care and final wishes. It takes the burden off your loved ones
because they know exactly what YOU want. It honours and ensures your end of
life wishes are followed, which is worth putting pen to paper.
You are not alone ~
When death is expected or when it happens, you may not be prepared for the
intensity and duration of your emotions. Witnessing and experiencing the
ebbs and flows of an end-of-life journey, can be an overwhelming process for
all involved. I can provide support and services along the way.
Respite ~
As a friend or family member, it is true, caring for a loved one can be a
very rewarding experience.
However, depending on the extent of care, you may rarely be able to step
outside your supporting role and resume your previous role as
husband/wife/etc. Respite care allows you to maintain a healthy balance
between caregiver and supporting your emotional and mental well being. I
would be honoured to give you time to breathe .
Vigil / Holding space with a loved one ~
How do we support the mind, body and soul, of a dying person?
A bedside vigil, is one of the most beautiful ways we do that. Holding space
with them. To be a witness to their emotions and validate them, while being
present to your own. With my experience, I am able to offer suggestions for
comfort while you are sitting at the bed side of someone you love. Should a
time arise when your loved one may be alone, I would be privileged to hold
that space for you.
MAID Ceremonial Services ~
If you, or a loved one has made the decision to employ Medical Assistance in
Dying, I am here to support you in all non-medical aspects of the journey.
Obituaries and Death Notices ~
We are all used to friends or family members speaking on the behalf of their
loved one, but have you considered writing your own farewell?
What would you like your final message to sound like?
Capturing the unique spirit of a person in their death notice or obituary is
the goal.
I especially enjoy working with the dying person to incorporate their voice
in the tribute. I believe the individual should know the impact they’ve had
on their loved ones before they go. Crafting an obituary or death notice
ahead of time can bring a sense of satisfaction and peace to the dying.
Legacy projects ~
Have you ever missed someone so much you would give anything just to hear
their voice again?
Maybe it was their laugh.
Maybe it was their smile.
Maybe it was a special fabric that will forever remind you of them.
Why not leave these gifts to your loved ones…
Photo albums with your handwriting. Books recorded in your voice. Pillows or
teddy bears made from a special garment.
Let’s get creative and keep your love alive for future generations!
Top 10 Benefits of Hospice/End-of-Life Doula Collaboration
Together we can double our efforts to:
- Demystify and change perceptions of dying.
- Deinstitutionalize the dying experience when possible.
- Support families and loved ones during and after diagnosis through the dying period.
- Introduce a comprehensive, holistic continuum of care concept.
- Expand value-added service options for Patients and families.
- Increase cross-cultural psychosocialspiritual options for more personalized, family centred end of life care.
- Reach patients sooner to improve quality of life on hospice care.
- Find ways to engage families and friends in ways that are meaningful and life-affirming.
- Improve policies and payment systems to benefit all involved.
- Educate and engage the public mainstream providers about EOL issues.